#BookReview: Toxic Empathy by Allie Beth Stuckey

There Is A Case To Be Made For The Premise Of This Book. The Text Of This Book Does Not Make It.

And ultimately, that’s the bottom line. Not because Stone Cold Said So, but because Stuckey was so utterly inept in trying to make her points that she didn’t bother to do even cursory research into the issues – at least, at bare minimum, immigration and police abuse of citizens.

Her points about abortion seem reasonable, if almost verbatim from the pregnancy crisis centers anti-abortion advocates run. Be warned, through this section – the first chapter of the book – Stuckey dives deep on being as explicit as possible on what exactly happens during an abortion. Not for the squeamish, but it is also clear that she is going for shock value here. So take it as you will.

Similarly, in Chapter 2 when discussing transgenderism, she goes for the shock value quite often again, while also making some genuinely intriguing points – many of which have been pointed out by various others (sometimes on both conservative and “progressive” sides) over the years. Here, she cites some work that sounds promising – but which another 1* reviewer claims has been retracted due to failure to obtain institutional oversight review approval. Take that as you will.

In Chapter 3, discussing LGB issues more generally, Stuckey actually shows probably the most promise of the entire text of genuinely being more compassionate… except that even here, she often ignores Christ in favor of some US right wing 2000s era talking point or another.

And then, as mentioned earlier, the last couple of chapters are just such *utter* trash that to even begin to describe them… well, let’s just say that it is *here*, in particular, that this book truly earns out my dreaded “gold mine” label. There is perhaps a modicum of genuinely good thought in these sections, but it is *so* buried under so much detritus that sifting through it may as well be moving mountains to find a fleck of gold dust. It is through this section in particular that I wish I had been able to see her bibliography, but this wasn’t possible in the Audible form of the book I read.

And, lest the reader of my review think I wasn’t going to point this out, there is indeed the constant and ever present proof texting – which is bad enough for a 1* deduction in and of itself.

Ultimately this is a right wing US political book calling itself a book about Christian thought… without ever actually (or, specifically, *accurately*) citing Christ’s examples in literally anything at all she discusses.

I picked up this book because it was being so utterly destroyed in my circles on Twitter – and now I have to admit that those friends and other luminaries were far more correct than I’d have liked about this book. I wanted to be able to defend this text – as I said in the title, I firmly believe that a case for the general premise *can* be made and even *should* be made. I simply wish Stuckey had given even a wet Dollar General paper towel’s worth of effort in crafting such an argument, rather than… whatever this is… that we ultimately got.

Not recommended for anyone but the truly masochistic.

This review of Toxic Empathy by Allie Beth Stuckey was originally written on November 1, 2024.

#BookReview: Good Boys: The Visionary by Jeremy Robinson

Epic Finale As Only The New God Of Science Fiction Can. Robinson has had epic finales before (SINGULARITY, PROJECT: LEGION, FAMINE), and yet this man continually out does even his own insane storytelling abilities. Truly, his creativity knows seemingly few – if any – bounds, and he is always surprising in what influences he brings to bear on any given project.

Once again, we find ourselves dealing with the near immediate aftermath of the last book… as we jump straight into the action of this one. And what action it is. Spanning the globe and breaking a team into smaller chunks… and yet bringing them back together in surprising and inventive ways. Along the way, I’m pretty sure Robinson does as much as possible to gross everyone – but particularly his Audible narrator – out… and yes, if you have a somewhat weak stomach, there will likely be more than a few gag moments for you. But there are also going to be a lot of rolling on the floor laughing your ass off moments… so just hope and pray to all that you consider holy that the two moments are no the same one. (And know that your prayers won’t go any higher than the ceiling of the room you’re in, because yet again, Robinson seems intent on making someone learn what it feels like to lose their lunch while laughing so hard.)

Full of Robinson’s unique blend of action, laughs, and heart, this conclusion to this trilogy really is his best yet.

Very much recommended.

This review of Good Boys: The Visionary by Jeremy Robinson was originally written on November 1, 2024.

#BookReview: Society Of Lies by Lauren Ling Brown

Promising Debut. This is one of those debut books where it absolutely shows flashes of brilliance… yet also doesn’t fully come together. But not in any objective-ish sense, just more of a more nebulous “there should probably be more *there* there”. And because it isn’t objective-ish and because I can’t really put a finger on exactly what my ultimate issue is here, the book by default retains its full 5* in my own rating system.

Ultimately this *is* a reasonably solid mystery-thriller (part of the issue is the tension between the two and the book constantly switching gears and never really settling on one or the other, even just in a “this genre is dominant and that one is a touch secondary” manner) that keeps fans of both genres reasonably satisfied throughout. Set at Princeton among its real life eating clubs, and featuring such real world issues (even well outside Princeton at State colleges) as tutoring a kid getting particularly preferential treatment due to being a Legacy, this is one of those tales that will excite some and turn off others, but I thought it worked well enough for what it was. Far from a Dead Poets Society, this is really more of a The Skulls level tale, but primarily featuring 2 sisters each in two different timelines each.

And I think, ultimately, that is the key to enjoying this tale – if you approach it ala The Skulls (and if you haven’t seen that movie from current Dr. Odyssey Joshua Jackson’s Dawson’s Creek years, you should) – you’ll likely have a great time with this tale. If “Dark Academia” is 100% not your thing… you likely won’t have such a great time here.

Very much recommended.

This review of Society Of Lies by Lauren Ling Brown was originally written on November 1, 2024.

#BookReview: Christmas In Chestnut Ridge by Nancy Naigle

Slow Burn Hallmarkie Christmas Romance. If you like Hallmark Christmas movies and maybe the CBS show Fire Country (vs NBC’s Chicago Fire, featuring a fire dept, yes, but in a big city rather than a small town ala Fire Country), you’re likely going to enjoy this book. If neither one of those are your thing… you’ll probably enjoy it less.

This is one where the romance itself almost takes a back seat at times, it is *so* slow burn. But if you enjoy crafting, particularly Christmas related crafting, there’s quite a bit for you here. There’s also a strong tale of neighbors helping neighbors – which may be a good thing to remember in the aftermath of the Helene and Milton hurricanes and as we wind up the 2024 election and begin to get ready for the holiday season. But again, the romance itself… can seem secondary (or even tertiary) at times. So for those looking for a more hot and heavy, romance centered tale… this aint that. Instead, this is once again on the “cleaner” / “sweeter” side – which is perfectly within Naigle’s normal approach.

Ultimately a fun and solid tale of its type, and clearly a type that has a lot of fans to boot.

Very much recommended.

This review of Christmas In Chestnut Ridge by Nancy Naigle was originally written on November 1, 2024.

#BookReview: We Three Kings by Kristen Bailey

If Charles Dickens Wrote A Hallmarkie Christmas RomCom. Seriously, this is one of those Christmas Hallmarkie type tales that in its basic set up brings to mind almost a modern version of A Christmas Carol… but as a romcom rather than a “glimpse” based drama. Here, Bailey works her usual comedic genius in the various situations Maggie finds herself in, even if the ultimate outcome (not just the romantic one, but the specific plot one) was rather obvious almost from the moment the “problem” is introduced in the tale. But there again: Hallmarkie. As in, such obvious outcomes are damn near a reason to read the book to begin with – there won’t be much unexpected here, and what does show up unexpectedly will be used for either comedy or light drama that won’t really go much of anywhere other than to add a few dozen more pages to the tale.

I will note that as someone in tech who actually experienced an unexpected “reduction” earlier this year, this one hit a touch harder than many for me personally – and given the blood bath that tech has been experiencing these last few years, this will likely be the case for many readers. One of the better things here though is that Bailey captures our world so well that one begins to suspect she may have been one of us before beginning her writing career.

Ultimately a feel good Christmas romcom, this is going to be exactly what some people want… and exactly what at least a few others want to avoid. Know thyself and which camp you’re in and read (or not) accordingly. 😀

Very much recommended.

This review of We Three Kings by Kristen Bailey was originally written on November 1, 2024.

#BookReview: Catch and Keep by Erin Hahn

If Toby Keith Joined The American Pie Crew And Had Lunch With Nicholas Sparks, You’d Get Something Close To This Book. Seriously. One, no matter what the RWA/ RNA types claim, Sparks writes romance novels. Tragedy is a perfectly valid end to a romance, and sometimes the romance is ever more powerful/ memorable *because* it ended in tragedy. And now that we’ve inserted a “controversy creates cash” flashpoint into this review… 😉

Seriously, the Keith and Sparks connections here are primarily due to the background of our male lead, a former soldier now returning home to take over his parents’ business as they attempt to retire. It is this part of the tale that adds some extra emotional heft that Sparks and Keith were so excellent with, particularly as it relates to soldiers, in their stories. Indeed, there are absolutely times where Keith’s “American Soldier” begins to sound almost audibly in at least this reader’s head while reading this book.

Outside of our male lead though, this book is one that highlights that northern Michigan/ upper Wisconsin lake resort vibe that American Pie used so well in a couple of their movies to great extent, though mostly showing it from a more local perspective than the summer party crowd. We get some meta commentary on the perils of online “fame”, and we get a LOT of laughs – which is where the American Pie connection really comes to bear. Not in the titular joke from that series, but there are absolutely some comedic bits that will take readers “of a certain age” (re: those who were older teens/ younger 20s when the first couple of American Pie movies came out) back to that era.

Overall a largely fun romcom with some truly serious elements, though seemingly lighter in tone than many “Hallmarkie” movies despite having elements that are more serious than are generally found in that set. So an interesting combination, and one that Hahn works to great effect here.

Very much recommended.

This review of Catch and Keep by Erin Hahn was originally written on November 1, 2024.

#BookReview: Wish I Were Here by Melissa Wiesner

RomCom In A Nightmare Setting. Seriously, the title of the review here is pretty much exactly what you’re getting. I don’t know how common it is, but I know I’ve had the nightmare that is a version of the basic premise of this book – that you suddenly find out all of your “government” “approved” “identification” is suddenly found to be fraudulent and/ or non-existent… anywhere. How would you survive in modern America? Particularly if you were just starting a new job? And now you have the basic narrative here.

The romance/ romcom aspects of this tale take a bit of the realism of the premise out of the picture, but then, if we wanted a gritty real world version of the premise above, we wouldn’t be looking for it in a romcom, now would we? Instead, both sides of romance and comedy work well, so long as you don’t mind absurdist/ “What the FUCK?” comedy. (And seriously, if you can’t enjoy that type of comedy at least from time to time, that absolutely says more about you than about Wiesner’s writing here.)

Ultimately, this *is* a romcom – even with the initial premise – so yes, things get tied up in nice little maybe more Lifetime Movie than Hallmarkie bows, but said bows are absolutely the pink and frilly kind. In other words, don’t let the premise get you too anxious here, just sit back and enjoy the ride – if maybe a touch more pulse pounding than many romcoms.

Very much recommended.

This review of Wish I Were Here by Melissa Wiesner was originally written on November 1, 2024.